• Don’t use your kids to get to your spouse,
• Don’t ask your kids to choose one parent over the other one.
• Accept that it takes 2 to have your relationship end.
• Don’t give the decision making role to your kids, you’re the parent, that’s your job to take on that burden, not theirs.
• Refrain from arguing when your children can hear you.
• Listen to your kids, but don’t put forth your own issues and say it’s your kids having this issue.
• Be careful what you say, some things can’t be taken back so easily.
• Just because your spouse parents differently, doesn’t mean that a shared parenting plan won’t work.
• Don’t use your kids to stop your kids from seeing the opposing parent.
• Be forthcoming with ALL OF YOUR FINANCIAL DISCLOSURE.

ACT LIKE AN ADULT, HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH and CHOOSE TO TAKE THE HIGH ROAD FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR KIDS.

There are no winners when a family unit breaks down, so STOP pointing fingers at each other

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