Separation & Divorce in Calgary

How we help you separate

• We’ll meet you in a neutral environment to work out what needs to be negotiated between you.
• We’ll help you understand what dividing the matrimonial property means for each of you.
• We’ll help you understand spousal support.
• We’ll help you understand child support and other related expenses for your children.
• We’ll help you build a successful parenting plan so your children stay connected to both of you.

The result: a mediated or negotiated agreement that becomes the basis of your legal separation agreement once you’ve each obtained independent legal advice from a lawyer. Your process stays mediation-focused, with far less need for lawyer involvement.

You’re not the only one going through this

Divorce does not define who you are, and it doesn’t carry the stigma it used to. But when you’re facing it, it can feel like you’re the only one. No two situations are the same, so although the people closest to you may think they’re looking out for you with their advice, it’s important to get unbiased information about how to proceed.

Divorce and separation can touch anyone: all walks of life, with net worths from thousands to millions, in every kind of profession. What’s common to most is that divorce is painful. It creates uncertainty, affects your work, your children and their routines, and your extended family relationships. Your financial world is challenged, and whatever your role was in the marriage, it won’t be the same going forward.

Getting through separation and divorce

Acceptance, responsibility, good professional help (counsellors, mediators, divorce specialists), a regular routine of your own with positive influences, some exercise and lots of sleep can all help. Together they can turn what feels like an endless whirlwind into a situation where you have some direction and some control.

Get help early, find out what you don’t know, and spend some quality time with yourself so you can commit to getting through this with dignity and minimal destruction. Leave the hate, resentment and hurt for your counsellor and other supports, and keep them away from the negotiation table. Bringing those emotions to mediation only prolongs the pain and the process.

Ready to take the next step? Book your free consultation, call 403.460.2800, or send us a message.