When the words “I want a divorce” come from your spouse, there’s no way to predict what will happen next is there? We go from being what we’d otherwise call ourselves as being reasonable, to becoming someone we didn’t know existed. We’re suddenly filled with so many emotions, the claws come out, the lashing out happens, the down and out real ugliness that you didn’t know existed, surfaces.
If that phase persists and the focus remains on ‘winning or losing’ at all cost, then you’re in for an ugly, destructive, costly battle. Isn’t life hard enough without us complicating things even more? When do you stop and ask yourself “Why am I doing this?” or “What am I really hoping to accomplish?” “Does anyone really care who did what to whom?”
If you have children, they’re watching every move you make, they’re feeling every bit of the resentment and pain that you exude. Is this really what you want for them? For yourself?
Take the HIGH ROAD, especially when you have children. If it’s over, then it’s over. Get past it and move forward, so that everyone has the opportunity to heal, to regroup and rebuild.
STOP making money for the legal system and keep it in your own family wealth! Get coached through a mediation process that allows you to be a part of the process and not a product of it.
The easy way is to ruin each other, the better way is to leave with your dignity intact.
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